The Second Chance

In life , we experience a lot of failed attempts..lot of times we are sure of a win or success but it eludes us  hence plunging us into despair and agony.. Sometimes, we do not give our best shot and realize its too late to repair the damage.. Then failure strikes us upfront leaving us beleaguered with constant thoughts of remorse and regret.. But even after this, life has a second chance for you.. but when you start for the second chance , this time success will take more time to come into your clutches than it would have taken in the first place if you had given your best shot earlier.. And it takes a lot more time and efforts just to teach us a lesson..

"When we have a broken relationship for the first time, we refrain ourselves from entering into second one.. There is abstinence from giving ourselves a second chance ".... this on is out of context so we can skip it..!!!

So how many of us have a introspection and think what we want to do in life.. How many of us ponder about what we like, we can do as a living .. Answer is-- Majority of people... How many of think about choosing a career option which  they have done it for free otherwise as they love doing it ...How many people take there interests to an ardent level and hence tasting blood..Answer-- handful of people..
Because either people are scared of giving themselves a 2nd chance for a new start or in the first place they
do not follow there interests.. Even if its not about following your interests , it comes down to the fact what gives you satisfaction .. A rhapsodic plus contended feeling should prevail when you are working professionally. Your work should make you feel proud and happy.. But how does this is linked to thought  " the second chance "...well somewhat, it is.. life gives you an another chance to make a decision whether to go for the chance or not.. We are scared of taking another path of success i.e following our interests and mastering them.. we tend to stick to prescribed path i.e becoming an engineer, doctor, law graduate etc.. But there are other opportunities , other un- trodden paths which can lead to success and satisfaction.. Success is about feeling exhilarated and contended about the work we do.. for that, we have to try and reach for 2nd chance or try to grasp in the first go... But most importantly ,Life, gives ,you, a , 2nd, chance, Always....,........

Pyaar ka punchnaama

Once, a girl and a guy  loved each other... they were both opposite in personalities ,but common in mentalities.. both had different lifestyles, but wanted to walk together 'all the miles".. both used to complete each other by giving part of their own lives to each other which other lacked otherwise...(sounds like a fairy tale story, bt it isnt).. "guy tried to become the perfect guy for her ". and he succeeded ..everything was right until the moment girl realised parents wont agree because they are from different castes. !!! damn it..... she dint even give him or her a chance to fight till the end.. !!!. when you cant fight  for the "thing called love" with which  once you wanted to spend your whole life with, how can you think of fighting the problems of whole life, hoping that  you will succeed..!!!!..gross....

Lot of people fall in love...some dont even feel it even exists..some dont believe ,that it 'exists'... Bt its not covetousness of love or the other person which transpires two people to stay together and think of spending their whole life with each other... lot more is there which meets the eye... its also depends on compatibility, education, wealth ,looks... they may be secondary things but primary thing for lot of people these days becomes god damn " CASTE" of the person... fuck.!!!! why.??? .. two person spend time with each other, love each other, compatibility is great, everything is rock solid except the fact that they belong to god damn two different castes.... "arey pyaaar kya jaat paat dekh ke kia tha.... pasand kia to uski caste dekhi thi ya insaan dekh tha....!!!"... this outrageous mentality is also ingrained and augmented by parents and families ,not solely by the children. honour killings are common these days. because people like to think on frivolous issues like caste ,creed and all... all it matters is two people want to stay with each other  and if they have what it takes to be with each other, nobody should interfere in that..period....rest is all bullshit.... 

EXPERIMENTING .... CHECK...........

Life becomes too mundane and boring when we take it too seriously... we get to much involved in the day to day work, just give into the monotonous routine and we forgot that there is a lot to achieve in life...Achievements start with experimenting...If you would not have tried walking, you would not have come to know that you can run also...!!!.. And its always good to experiment new things in life...

Its an ecstatic feeling when we fall in love for the first time, isn't it?? The first  crush, the first kiss, the first love , the first booze, the salary.!!!  Its rhapsodic when we try new things and they make us forget all our worries. SOME THINGS COME OUR WAY, FOR REST, WE HAVE TO PAVE THE WAY.!!!. Lot of people do not try to wallow  in things which doesn't bear them any profit ( profit from the virtue of time and money ).. I mean, adventure sports looks like a waste of money.. but are there to rejuvenate  and enjoy them with our brain shut( that part of the brain which has always been the store room of worries and "voraciousness" !!!...but they do not give us any profit ..they give us immense happiness and good memories for which we struggle in our lives daily anyway..

 We do not realise the importance of friends until we try making new friends, and good friends..!!!!.. aaahhh... i want to experience new aspects in life.... taking few steps at a time... trying to live in present because we cant control the future.. we can patronize the future by keeping ourselves happy  in the present... and that we do by experimenting new things
in life and try to find the nirvana out of them.... but as they say-"excess of everything is bad.."... even excess of experimentation ... 

Teachers VS Students

Time -9:30 a.m
Place -- practical lab

(entered the lab)..tip toeing nd moving silently..Upon entering, Saw 3 of my good friends sitting in a reposed way on their chairs and drinking coffee(as if it was a glass of wine)...!!!! was really intrigued about the fact that how can they be so chilled out in the lab in the presence of  pesky lab assistants...!!! i slowly turned around to see them nd holaa......!!!, lab assistants doing cheers with their own coffee glasses... !!!(sigh).. god bless them........(otherwise they are busy playing solitaire or freecell on the desktops..)

after few minutes, our lab teacher enters , sits amongst the children and watches the children holding the coffee cup with raised eyebrows..
SIR-- coffee pe rhe ho?? kisne dia hai??
STUDENT--Yes sir... sir lab assistant "sir" ne di hai..
SIR-- mjhe coffee itna pasand nhi hain.. itna badhiyan nhi lgta hai... but meri wife peeti hai... main bhi ek do bar bakri ke shudh doodh mein daalkr thoda se taste kia hun..bt acha nhi lga...

ME-- with raised eyebrows nd queer look and thinking what the hell is happening...

SIR-- gandhji has written in his autobiography -- that consume only those items which are necessary for living and without which you can lead a robust life.. water is necessary..but without coffee or tea, we can live...  THAT doesnt mean that i havent experienced or tasted prohibited drinks or something else.. try kia hun... bt never got acquainted or accustomed to it.. nhi to ek baar koi humein pila diye the sharbat keh kar...


Half of the class was bemused and tried to recollect what did he just say..!!! just so proficient and fluent english-wow !!!, all the children thought...

as he was gettin up from his chair, he looked towards a child.

SIR-- tum humesha haste rehte ho???
STUDENT-- :D... yes.. :D ..sir..:D...
SIR-- itna mat hasa karo..bahut fake lgta hai......!!!! :p..

lol...bechaara my friend...uski le li gayi and wo kuch na kar saka,...:p..

 TIME--10:00 clock
Same teacher, teaching us the theory part regarding the experiments...
SIR--what is root locus??? and when will it be stable and why does it need to stable??
(everybody  was clueless when sir was bombarding us with questions, because we all were busy  dozing off in the theory lectures so dint really know what sir was asking..atleast i dint)..

SIR-- ye board to market se bhi milta hga na.. i want to teach slum and underpriviledged children... who dnt have access to basic amenities of life but want to study ...

arrey waah.!!!!..samaaj sewa ki baat... ye to mere matlab ka hai...lets rope in sir in the rotary club and will send him to teach the children...sir bhi khush and rotary bhi... BuT WAIT..!!! keeping everythng aside,  first focus on the theory he is teaching... FOCUS....

SIR-- jaise ek healthy mind chahiye hta hai stable body ke liye, .... samjh rhe ho naa... haan... so a stable mind and body is required for a its legitimate functioning of it... nd to study the stability of a person , you have to know the intrinsic nature of that human being first... intrinsic nature... samjh rhe hooo...???

STUDENT-- yes sir....!!! (half of them nodding in despair and with disinterest)..
SIR-- so that's why we need to study root locus...to know the details of the system and for the formulation of equations of  the transfer function....

woooahhh... what a practical and real life approach towards a problem...!!!.. dis teacher aint dat bad..
# HELLL YEAAH...

a student enters around 10:15 in the lab... sir unperturbed by his coming late to the lab..( otherwise  lab assistants  lambastes on us on such things when we enter late ,to teacher kya cheez hai....)...

SIR-- (smiling and to the child entering late). you are looking smart  today...
STUDENT-- :D..sir baal baitha rakhe hain.. thats  why.. :D..
SIR--"KAAFI GORE AND HANDSOME LAG RHE HO.. LGTA HAI BAHUT CREAM SHREAM USE KAR RHE HO... BADHIYAN HAIN...:)"....

and i was literally rolling on the floor nd laughing.."ROFL word ki thodi feel aa gyi thi..

STUDENT--" nhi sir.... :D...handsome to humesha se hi tha..:D.baaki to shave ka kamaal hai.. :D.."

(though my friend is sharp and swift in replying ,issi friend ko sir ne proxy maarte huye bhi pakad lia tha pehli class mein, to aise kaise easily entry dete class mein.. :p..)

sir kept on teaching and stating real life examples and quotations..(his 2nd or 3rd sentence is  always marked with the ending of a quotation which are really used aptly.)

what a superb and a cool teacher..  lab and his teaching, for about 45 mins was really refreshing... atleast  he didnt induce me or any of us to sleep.!!!. unlike some other teachers who can surpass the effects of chloroforms or sleeping pills when they come to teach students...!!!


LASTLY, he rightly said-- "gyaan ko,dhyaan se pado nd jahan se miley ,bator lo..,..sirf dikhaane ke liye ya numbers ke liye naa pado.."..



a enthusiastic teacher wants a class room full of eager and zealous students..(some simply love empty class rooms also... )

and what we enthusiastic students want....... well that list can never end.........