Some friendships are built during awkward situations and at awkward places. Maybe because they are destined too.. (If you do not believe in destiny, then just believe they met for a purpose). I am an extrovert person.. I love meeting people with new ideologies, different persona and perspective. And i do make friends for a long period of time. (I lose few of them after a long period time too). My memory suddenly flashes back and i remember that i made a lot of friends when 3 years old. I was in nursery and a naught kid.
I fondly remember making friends in a summer vacation camp sort of thing in National Science Center at the age of 7 . I had a friend named "Harit Singh" . I never met him after that camp got over as there were no mobile phones at that time..Interesting part is, i met him when we were playing hide and seek in a maze of mirrors . And we bumped into each other, shook hands and went to the canteen to eat something..We used to understand each other without much usage of words ( surprisingly, i used to be a talkative and blabber mouth kid at that time).
I made friends in school. A lot of them . Some parted ways, majority did not. Friends and friendships has evolved over a period of time. But sometimes, you tend to get censorious about your friends, their behavior and demeanor . And hence, for sometime you tend to stay away from them. You do miss them but you need a space where you can comfort yourselves without thinking of the fact that people might judge you. Your best friends do not judge you.. They kick your butts and support through thick and thin in your decision.
But sometimes, you find solace in a friend whom you just have met. You confide in them as you have ascertained the fact that they wont judge you. and even if they tell that conversation to somebody, it will hardly affect your life or theirs.
You find solace in such serendipity. It feels good because you vent out things to newly formed friend or a random person. Sometimes your best friends also get tired of kicking your butts. Then you need to find somebody who can shake his/her butts along with yours and say aloud- " hakkkuuunaaahhhh mattaattaaaahhhh".. And whooossshhh.. Bye bye stress and tension.. Phewww....
These friendships may not remain for a long time in your life. But they do leave a lasting imprint.
P.S- Poker table can be a good place to find such people.. :D..
I fondly remember making friends in a summer vacation camp sort of thing in National Science Center at the age of 7 . I had a friend named "Harit Singh" . I never met him after that camp got over as there were no mobile phones at that time..Interesting part is, i met him when we were playing hide and seek in a maze of mirrors . And we bumped into each other, shook hands and went to the canteen to eat something..We used to understand each other without much usage of words ( surprisingly, i used to be a talkative and blabber mouth kid at that time).
I made friends in school. A lot of them . Some parted ways, majority did not. Friends and friendships has evolved over a period of time. But sometimes, you tend to get censorious about your friends, their behavior and demeanor . And hence, for sometime you tend to stay away from them. You do miss them but you need a space where you can comfort yourselves without thinking of the fact that people might judge you. Your best friends do not judge you.. They kick your butts and support through thick and thin in your decision.
But sometimes, you find solace in a friend whom you just have met. You confide in them as you have ascertained the fact that they wont judge you. and even if they tell that conversation to somebody, it will hardly affect your life or theirs.
You find solace in such serendipity. It feels good because you vent out things to newly formed friend or a random person. Sometimes your best friends also get tired of kicking your butts. Then you need to find somebody who can shake his/her butts along with yours and say aloud- " hakkkuuunaaahhhh mattaattaaaahhhh".. And whooossshhh.. Bye bye stress and tension.. Phewww....
These friendships may not remain for a long time in your life. But they do leave a lasting imprint.
P.S- Poker table can be a good place to find such people.. :D..
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